About Me
In 2024, at the age of 60, I started life over from scratch.
After years of living under the control of narcissism, I left a marriage gone bad, moved to a new state, and started learning how to take care of myself. The more I helped myself, the more the 'universe' seemed to help me, too.
Change was slow. I had a lot of inner healing to do. I took little steps every day toward improvement, started feeling better, and was determined to keep going.
Over time, I gained new confidence in myself.
I stopped relying on other people to tell me what I should do and started making my own decisions and thinking about what I truly enjoyed. These two things alone were agonizing after years, or rather an entire lifetime of loyalty and people pleasing. I didn't really know what I liked. I operated on autopilot choosing things that I knew someone else preferred. What it meant to be me, choose for, myself, and not look to another face for the answer.
I learned to care about myself, to realize that I matter and that I don't need to ask permission to be myself or do what I want. In all my life I had no idea these three concepts applied to me. It made sense to me that everyone else mattered, were more correct, and should be given what they need. Somehow, throughout my life, I had developed a servant mindset - or an inferiority complex.
I finally put myself first.
Other people matter immensely, but if we do not love and care for ourselves on the deepest level first, we cannot give real love and care to anyone else without becoming depleted.
Life is too short not to do all we can to fulfill our happiness.
Happiness is a condition not a final destination.
We attain happiness through
physical, mental, and emotional health.
My mission is to reach out and
help others do the same.
I bang the drum to the rhythm of
self-acceptance and self-love that holds:
Strength - Courage - Persiverance - Hope
Every story takes us down one of two paths:
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One keeps you inside a prison
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One creates your legacy
Which story will you choose to tell?
My Mission
I help women like me, who have experienced dramatic life change and challenge and are ready
to rise again
and design the next phase of their lives.
As your perspective, focus, and self-esteem improve, you start to see a brighter future.
I am not a guru
Personal experience is my certification of expertise.
Empathy and a sincere desire to help and share knowledge are my methods.
The more you believe in yourself, the world opens wider. You can reach abandoned dreams, live new adventures, bring ideas into reality, and try experiences that put a fire back into you.
Start choosing yourself today and each day forward. This is your time to live as you were meant to.
My vision is to help you realize the brighter future waiting for you, and give you the spark
to ignite your dreams and make them reality.